RADIO BERRY FM Tochigi On the broadcast of the radio program “IZONE Honda Hitomi’s World Get You” (every Thursday from 9:30 pm to 9:45 pm) on Thursday, September 10, 2020, IZONE’s Honda Hitomi was giving love advice to high school listeners.
Honda Hitomi: This time… I received a love advice. This is “Moony” who lives in Saitama Prefecture. Listener email: Hii-chan, good evening. Today, I would like to ask Hii-chan for advice on my troubles. I am currently a third-year high school student and a year and a half ago, I was dumped by my girlfriend at the time. The way she dumped me was by sending me “five screenshots of the memo function on her smartphone” on LINE, which wrote “her dissatisfaction with me”. Since then, I have become bad at talking to women around my age. What can I do to be able to talk to women like before again? Honda Hitomi: …So. Oh, wait a minute. If you get “five screenshots of complaints”… it’s hard to recover from that, isn’t it… Ugh…If I were in Moony’s position, I definitely wouldn’t recover from that… (laughs).
Hmm. That’s true. But it was still a good experience… but you dated for a year and a half, right?
But it was still a “good experience in life”… I guess. Change your mindset… how should I put it. Hmm.
So, Moony, you say “it’s hard to talk to women like before.” Start with your mother, who is close to you (laughs). That’s right, your mother is a woman too, isn’t she? So you should “practice talking to your mother”, and then move on to your “female friends” who are close to you. Maybe in that way you can gradually “practice talking to a wider range”…?
It’s difficult… I mean, by someone you’ve been dating for a year and a half. If you get dumped, that’s what you’d do…
But, you’re right. You’re close in age to me, aren’t you? You’re in your third year of high school.
Just sending me a message like this is amazing. I think this trauma is gradually being resolved…. I’m always rooting for you. Do your best!